A family gathered together

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This is a photograph of a family that’s come together to support one another amid a series of losses the past six months.  There is love and caring, trust and help. We’ve shared our laughter, our tears, our sorrow, and our togetherness; we’ve opened our hearts to one another, and we’ve learned new things about each other in the process.  When one of us was down, there was someone to listen to us, someone to comfort us, someone to hold us close.  There was someone to take the lead when decisions needed to be made or tasks needed to be accomplished.  I have a renewed appreciation for each of the people in this photograph.

With the recent deaths in my family I now understand first-hand the importance of photographing and preserving the memories that we collect over a lifetime.  This photograph was taken after the funeral service for my mother.  There was a mixture of sorrow and celebration in all of our hearts, but this is my family and I’m so very proud of our love and connection – something instilled in us all by both my mother and my father.

A mother’s love

A mother's love_Staats

My family has come together yet again, this time to be with my mother.  Since living by herself four months after my father’s death, she didn’t have the strength/will to battle the health issues she was facing.  On Tuesday she passed away with my brothers and me by her side.  As we process through this, I know this is how she’d want it, as family was first and foremost for her.
The night of her death, this photo fell out of a file folder – a visual reminder of the closeness, protectiveness, and love my mother gave to me, as well as my brothers, my nieces and nephews, and our extended family.
As we gather to celebrate her life, I know she will be proud of her family — seeing us all together to help one another through our sorrow and loss.

A day set aside for love

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A day set aside to honor love – how simple, and yet how wonderful.  May your upcoming week include a recognition and an appreciation for the love that surrounds you, whether it be from a spouse, a lover, a child, a parent, a friend, a pet, a good book, a favorite place and/or past-time, or the love of self.  Happy Valentine’s Day!

The quiet of winter

Winter sunset on the prairie_StaatsWe headed out late one afternoon for some snowshoeing.  The Twin Cities are filled with wonderful parks that allow you to get “away” from the city, even though it’s all around.  I had been to this park before on my bicycle and knew that it had a paved walking trail through it.  I was surprised that the trail had actually been plowed, so we carried our snowshoes for awhile.  In the center of the park is a wonderful prairie area, with a grove of trees sitting up on a hill.  It was the perfect place to don our snowshoes and head off into the knee-deep snow.  There was a wonderful quiet to the afternoon – a stillness that occurs when the snow absorbs all the sounds around it.  We were out as the sun travelled low in the horizon, lighting the clouds in the western sky.  What a treasure it is to have the beauty (and quiet) of nature so near to enjoy.

A celebration of all things wintry

St Paul Winter Carnival snow sculptures_StaatsThis week was the beginning the St. Paul Winter Carnival, a true celebration of all things having to do with winter.  And this year the weather has cooperated in fine fashion (some might even say it’s been a bit too cold).  In past years some of the events have had to be cancelled or shortened because of warming temperatures, but that isn’t an issue for us now.  The snow sculptures were being carved yesterday as I wandered around the Minnesota Fairgrounds.  This huge sculpture was especially popular for photographs, with the St. Paul Winter Carnival emblem in the center, surrounded by all sorts of cold-weather creatures and beasts.  There were even some “tools of the trade” – chests of saws and chisels – that were still being used for touch up.  The celebration continues through next weekend (although I truly believe winter will be lasting much longer than that!).